Why Is No So Hard To Understand?
I’m often asked for advice, one of the questions asked pretty often is about pursuing someone in the work place.
This is how it goes..
Friend “Hey, should I try to sleep with someone at work?”
Friend “But I think she is cute and thinks she likes me. I asked her out months ago and she said no. I think she said no because she was new”
Me “No, now you are making an uncomfortable work environment if she said no already”
Friend ” I’m going to try later”
Facebook months later..
Friend post “my new coworker said yes to a date”
Weeks after that post on Facebook:
Friend posts “my job pulled me into a meeting to ask about the girl i took out. I’m now being transferred. ”
Week’s after that
Friend posts “my job let me go today…”
One day men will learn to not crap where they eat… as a matter of fact they should not crap anywhere.
Men often treat women as prey. They will say or do whatever it takes to get a woman to do what they want. It’s never good to place anyone in a situation they have made very clear they do not want to be in. It’s never a good thing to use power, fear, deceit or harassment to get the end game of sex.